Scenario 1
Girls nite out at a cafe. One of your girlfriend is wearing a new dress that doesn't do her justice. Worst still the dress makes her look fat. After a cup of coffee, she asked around flaunting her new dress "eh what do u think of my outfit? Lawa tak..I got this on sale u know..its Zara"
Im sure the answers from her girlfriends would be...
hmm, it looks good, I noticed it since u masuk cafe tadi...
Oh..Zara ye, mesti la cantik...baju mahal!
while smiling and belek belek baju dia dgn bersungguh sungguh....
scenario 2
Your friend invited you to have dinner at her house. The chicken curry unfortunately was quite tasteless. She smiles at you and asked anxiously; how do you like the curry? Its my mom's recipe u know..people just luv it. Most probably you will smoothly say; uuhh I luv it,..memang sedap betul, sama macam curry kat Pelita, maybe even better!"
Best of all while lying,you dun even fidget an inch! In fact you gives her an thumb up sign!
Well, I think in general women lie becoz they are too NICE. They have GOOD intentions. They do not want to hurt their friends and their love ones feelings. They love them too much.
As for men, they may choose to just say aaahhh,uuuhhh when you asked them "do I look fat in this dress" while quickly tuning up the volume of the TV and pretending to be engrossed in the documentary.
Conclusion: men and women 2x5 je!!!! It's just that men chose to use a few syllabus while women makes sentences.
What say you?
8 Your say:
Hi Nurie,
Thanks for visiting my blog and for being so open and honest with your comments. I really appreciate your warmth as exuded by your words ..I also like your blog - all my fav colors.
Actually, I put that post cos it's my dad's second death anniversary and i feel exactly the way you do...
Pleased to meet you via blogging. Btw, love this post to....i blogged sth like it in my other blog here
http://masterwordsmith-unplugged.blogspot.com/2009/10/things-that-every-girlfriend-should.html
Take care and thanks for putting me on your blogroll!
Salam,
Paula
Noor,
Women mostly make those teenie weenie lies to friends or other women, but not to men. As for men, if we do lie, then it's on the big stuff, not the tiny ones.
But personally speaking, if you don't want me to lie, then don't ask too many questions, heheheh ;-)
Hi Paula,
So you like earth tones colors too :-)
Im sorry to hear about your late father. No wonder the story touches our heart....
I really have to thank our friend oldstock for 'introducing' me to you, chahya and uncle lee via his blog..you guys are definitely one of a kind!
By the way, here are my fav from your previous post. I can so relate to them!
-Televised sports are more important than stories about your friends.
-If you’re always right, stop asking his opinion.
heh heh....when my hubby is waching Liverpool match on TV, its okay for me/kids not to talk a single word with him for 90 minutes!
Hi oldstock!
Always nice to hear from you...
betul tu what you said abt men, they are more on the big stuff... But one thing that kinda irk me is that guys will alway stick to their buddies to "save' them no matter what.
As for ladies, some might back stab you just becoz she may feel jealous. Alwiz envy the male bonding thingly!
Noor,
Kalau part `cover-mengcover' ni, orang lelaki memang terrer...
Nurie,
It seems that those who asked actually have formed their own opinions about whatever they are asking. They just wanted confirmation and validation.
Right? (See what I mean?) hehehe
KIT!
erks.
now you make me wonder what little white lies my friends have been telling me...
Chahya,
RIGHT on!!
Elisa,
I think as we mature (not older eh) we can actually tell if someone is sincere or not..after all we have that woman instict!
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